<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Kiri Jimerson, Relationship Coach]]></title><description><![CDATA[Kiri Jimerson, Relationship Coach]]></description><link>https://www.kirijimerson.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2026 16:26:38 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.kirijimerson.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Can A Relationship Survive Infidelity?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Can I ever trust him again? Should I stay or let go? If an affair has turned your world upside down, start here. I walk through the five signs I see in couples who heal after betrayal, the red flags that point the other way, and why rebuilding trust in yourself comes before any decision about your relationship.]]></description><link>https://www.kirijimerson.com/post/can-a-relationship-survive-infidelity</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad5178b0dc65ada8a97c252</guid><category><![CDATA[Infidelity]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 14:35:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_fe8a3c5408af41fd8fec24fdf530e2e7~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kiri (Kirsten) Jimerson Sidell</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Husband Won’t Go to Couples Therapy: What Can I Do?]]></title><description><![CDATA[You’ve explained. You’ve asked. He still won’t go. That doesn’t mean your marriage is doomed. I unpack what often sits beneath his “no”: fear of blame, fear of failure, and conflict avoidance. Then I share four things you can do on your own to change the pattern. When one partner changes their steps, the whole dance changes.]]></description><link>https://www.kirijimerson.com/post/my-husband-won-t-go-to-couples-therapy-what-can-i-do</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad5178b0dc65ada8a97c251</guid><category><![CDATA[Couples Support]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 15:29:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_b9c9a25baae3440eae504984d183b383~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kiri (Kirsten) Jimerson Sidell</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dump the Story]]></title><description><![CDATA[When you’re scared, your focus narrows to the worst-case scenario, and every other option disappears. This is my story of finally saying “I’m done,” and of what happened when I stopped feeding my fears and started focusing on what I actually wanted from my divorce, for my daughter, and for myself.]]></description><link>https://www.kirijimerson.com/post/dump-the-story</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad5178b0dc65ada8a97c250</guid><category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 16:36:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_162961c32b1444a2b24bcbec60ea907f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kiri (Kirsten) Jimerson Sidell</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who's Really Winning the Arguments?]]></title><description><![CDATA[The laundry sat in the washer overnight. Again. The bell rings, and round one begins. In every fight there’s a third player in the ring, and it’s the only one that ever wins. Meet The Cycle, the pattern behind your most frustrating arguments, and learn one simple way to take off the gloves and win together.]]></description><link>https://www.kirijimerson.com/post/who-s-really-winning-the-arguments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad5178b0dc65ada8a97c24f</guid><category><![CDATA[Couples Support]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2026 15:32:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_f4a4d9aa9340488cbaea766a268c2bad~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kiri (Kirsten) Jimerson Sidell</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Motherhood Saved Me and Changed How We Parent Together]]></title><description><![CDATA[I didn’t start healing because I loved myself. I started because of my daughter. In this personal story, I share the moment I realized I couldn’t guide her toward happiness I wasn’t living myself. I also share how my own healing turned parenting from a tug-of-war into a shared effort.]]></description><link>https://www.kirijimerson.com/post/how-motherhood-saved-me-and-changed-how-we-parent-together</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad5178b0dc65ada8a97c24e</guid><pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2026 16:22:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/cb4332_089cf3f6d75d40ef806f0f2ab7a2715a~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_960,h_540,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Kiri (Kirsten) Jimerson Sidell</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>